Links to Think: 13.02.18

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How the Internet Reinforces Inequality in the Real World - I’m currently researching some travel options overseas. We want to experience a somewhat realistic glimpse of the country, but I’m often left wondering if using the Internet as my means of research and planning will leave me with a very different view of the country than if we just step off the plane and tried to find connections. Consequentially, this article was particularly fascinating to me–asking some important questions that not only examine the way the Internet affects life abroad, but how it also serves to reinforce many of the inequalities here in our own towns and cities.

“Every technological innovation today around a new smart-phone app or web platform improving quality of life in citiescomes with a caveat. What about the people who can’t access those tools? What about the people on the other side of the digital divide who lack access to home computers, Internet connections, unlimited data plans? These are the people who go “unmapped” in the geoweb.”

“There are at least three ways to think about all of this digital information about real-world places in the geoweb. What types of content are out there layered over a city (FourSquare check-ins at its restaurants, Wikipedia pages about its parks, geotagged tweets from its residents)? Where is that content coming from (who’s writing those Wikipedia pages, those tweets)? And who’s looking at it all? “Basically,” Graham says, “how visible are the digital shadows of cities?”"

“And we can see similar patterns – sometimes deceptive ones – emerged in the tweets from New York City during Hurricane Sandy. During the storm, the densest quantity of Sandy-related tweets emerged from Manhattan, relative to other boroughs of the city. But that doesn’t mean that Manhattan suffered the worst damage; rather, that it often produces the largest quantity of data. It’s easy to conflate the two, though, which is why maps often equate with power.”

“All of this information, Graham stresses, doesn’t exist in some kind of virtual world that’s separate from the real one. The two are intimately intertwined: We use digital information to navigate and understand the physical world, and in turn our experiences of place impact how we then contribute to the information about them. When we use this information (by, for example, clicking on a restaurant on Google Maps), we are often simultaneously consumers and producers of it (that single click is another data point in Google’s vast machine). All of this means that the geoweb may not just be reinforcing real-world inequalities. In many ways, it’s also enabling us to have dramatically difference experiences of the same places.”

Stress-Less Parenting: What Everyone Can Learn From Lazy French Mothers - Pamela Druckerman (of Bringing up Bébé, review here) writes the first in a Huffington Post Parenting Club series. While I’m sure my French-borne and French friends could clarify whether or not “the French way” is so obviously black and white, I can definitely agree with the overall message of the article.

“By now it’s a cliché that American families are in a bit of hurry. From my daughter’s first birthday, friends and family back in the U.S. began sending her electronic alphabet games and boxes of flash cards. (My French neighbors didn’t know what these were.) On trips back to the U.S., I watched parents monologue endlessly to their toddlers as they bumbled around playgrounds. (French parents tend to sit on the perimeter while children play by themselves). It seems obvious to us that the sooner kids can pass through developmental milestones, the better, and that it’s up to us grown-ups to grease the process.

The competitive rush continues for older kids. Social scientists who camp out in middle-class households observe “the hurried lifestyle” in which life is ruled by activity charts on color-coded white boards. Sociologist Annette Lareau describes a typical American family in which, “on any given weeknight or weekend day, one, two or sometimes all three of the boys have events, often at different times and in different parts of town.”

We Americans have reasons for subjecting ourselves to all this busyness — and the stress that inevitably comes with it. I heard about studies showing that poor kids fall behind in school because they didn’t get enough stimulation early on. Surely that means middle-class kids could benefit from more stimulation too? And we have a vague sense that arming kids with lots of skills from extracurriculars will lead to better outcomes — or that they might fall behind their peers if we don’t sign them up.”

“However, recent research lands on the side of the French. Extracurriculars are fine in moderation. But kids need lots of free time too. “‘Play’ (or some available free time in the case of older children or adolescents) is essential to the cognitive, physical, social and emotional well-being of children and youth,” a study in the journal Pediatrics explains. Brain research calls the notion that the more you stimulate little kids, the smarter they’ll be, a “neuromyth.” Apparently, teaching preschoolers lots of reading and math takes time away from the things their brains are most primed to learn at that age — like how to concentrate and get along with other people.”

“Perhaps our mistake in America isn’t all those tennis lessons. It’s being so focused on outcomes, we’ve forgotten that the quality of the 18 or so years we spend living en famille matters too. I personally plan to spend as much of that time as possible in cafés, while my children play.”

 

DIY Clothespin Collage Wall Frame

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Finishing up the DIY project posts from my original Living Room Redo, here’s an easy DIY post about how to make a Clothespin Collage Frame. Continue Reading…

Reading 2013: Bad Religion

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In Bad Religion: How We Became a Nation of Heretics, Ross Douthat proposes that the religious predicament America is facing today is not one of too much religion or too little religion; but rather, he provocatively argues, we are facing the problem of bad religion, of being a nation of heretics:

“America’s problem isn’t too much religion, or too little of it. It’s bad religion: the slow-motion collapse of traditional Christianity and the rise of a variety of destructive pseudo-Christianities in its place. Since the 1960’s, the institutions that sustained orthodox Christian belief – Catholic and Protestant alike – have entered a state of near-terminal decline.” (page 3)

In the Beginning, It Was Good. (Or, That’s What Douthat Argues.) Continue Reading…

Links to Think: 13.02.11

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READING CUTS STRESS LEVELS BY 68%Okay, perhaps this seems like a bit of confirmation bias, but here’s another great reason to read–to your health!

“Reading is the best way to relax and even six minutes can be enough to reduce the stress levels by more than two thirds or 68%.

New research by consultancy Mindlab International at the University of Sussex says reading works better and faster than other methods to calm frazzled nerves such as listening to music, going for a walk or settling down with a cup of tea.”

“Psychologists believe this is because the human mind has to concentrate on reading and the distraction of being taken into a literary world eases the tensions in muscles and the heart.

The volunteers were monitored and their stress levels and heart rate were increased through a range of tests and exercises before they were then tested with a variety of traditional methods of relaxation.

Reading worked best, reducing stress levels by 68 per cent, said cognitive neuropsychologist Dr David Lewis. Subjects only needed to read, silently, for six minutes to slow down the heart rate and ease tension in the muscles, he found. In fact it got subjects to stress levels lower than before they started.”

Top 10 Reasons Our Kids Leave Church – Although it’s not a perfect or fully unbiased assessment, I thought this was an interesting article examining why people, young and old, are leaving the Church (as in through means of leaving the “little ‘c’” churches, and thus in essence departing from Church, too):

10.  The Church is “Relevant”:

“I’m not ranting about “worldliness” as some pietistic bogeyman, I’m talking about the fact that we yawn at a 5-minute biblical text, but almost trip over ourselves fawning over a minor celebrity or athlete who makes any vague reference to being a Christian.

We’re like a fawning wanna-be just hoping the world will think we’re cool too, you know, just like you guys!

Our kids meet the real world and our “look, we’re cool like you” posing is mocked.  In our effort to be “like them” we’ve become less of who we actually are.  The middle-aged pastor trying to look like his 20-something audience isn’t relevant. Dress him up in skinny jeans and hand him a latte, it doesn’t matter. It’s not relevant, It’s comically cliché. The minute you aim to be “authentic”, you’re no longer authentic!”

9.  They never attended church to begin with:

From a Noah’s Ark themed nursery, to jumbotron summer-campish kids church, to pizza parties and rock concerts, many evangelical youth have been coddled in a not-quite-church, but not-quite-world hothouse.  They’ve never sat on a pew between a set of new parents with a fussy baby and a senior citizen on an oxygen tank.  They don’t see the full timeline of the gospel for every season of life.  Instead, we’ve dumbed down the message, pumped up the volume and act surprised when…

 

Reading 2013: The Fault in Our Stars

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The Fault in Our Stars by John Green is not my typical genre of interest; however, it’s not one I’m afraid to dip into when there is a best seller or recommended book. (Especially when it includes Harry Potter over glittery vampires.) The Fault in Our Stars was a New York Times #1 bestseller, showcasing a fine piece of young adult fiction.

Cancer is an important subject of the book, but it is not the main one. Nor is the love story. Main characters, Hazel Grace Alexander and Augustus Waters are both people whose lives are touched by cancer, but there are deeper stories at work. I will not endeavor to turn this brief review into a spoiler :) , but I was definitely deeply touched by this book. Readers will undoubtedly be forced to ask deep questions about life and death, about eternity, and what the purpose of life is; these elements add value to a genre that often lacks such components. At the same time, these questions are left vastly unanswered, and for a teen who may not know where to turn or who may be accustomed to thinking in black and white, there are certainly some tricky questions presented.

Christian religion is present in the book, but is really not presented as either good or bad. There is also mild language, as well as sex (though it is not descriptive–you just know that it happened). I had not read John Green prior to this book, but am convinced he’s a gifted author. The book is rich with quotables and one liners.

 

Reading 2013: What Every Body is Saying

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In What Every Body is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People, Joe Navarro offers a comprehensive guide to collecting information by observing bodily messages and non-verbal communication.

As a child, Joe Navarro was the child of Cuban immigrants, and came to the States with his family at age eight. In his situation, he did not speak English at his time of arrival, and before he was able to master the new language, he learned to pick up on even the slightest non-verbal communication to understand what people were really saying. It was this skill that he took with him into the FBI and allowed to enhance his career there. Today he attempts to share these skills with many people: detectives, police officers, and poker players, and anyone who is interested in his book and reading body language.

This is a fascinating book to help guide individuals to better observation of the world around them. One could think of Joe Navarro as a modern day Sherlock Holmes. And as Holmes succinctly stated in “A Scandal in Bohemia,”[Y]ou seebut you do not observe,” is the same issue that Navarro hopes his readers will be able to overcome after to putting to practice many of the observational skills laid out in his book.

Navarro is careful to point out that making snap judgments merely based on the way a person moves, breathes, or reacts can be an oversimplification when the broader context is not taken into account. Although I felt Navarro did a fairly good job at making sure to clarify after each section, I still fear that it could be all to easy to take some of these ideas and use them to make inappropriate conclusions about others (especially if you are a legalist).

I also felt that it would have been helpful for Navarro to touch on personality differences a bit more, and how that affects how different people will react in various situations. Also, I had to wonder if a serial, planned criminal studied this book enough, if s/he could master and overcome the typical limbic responses and body language. Navarro briefly addressed how actors and actresses in movies portray enhanced body language to communicate without words, and so one would think that if a criminal thought to “act” the role of being not guilty, or lied to himself about the crime enough, etc…, he may be able to evade some of the natural bodily responses.

Likewise, to learn to observe body language and non-verbal communication takes skill and practice. The book is helpful in that it includes charts and photo illustrations of the expressions and nonverbal in discussion.

If you need to do some interrogations in the future, you will likely find this a helpful book. Similarly, if you like to play the role of a Sherlock Holmes, you will undoubtedly find this instrumental in your daily activity. However, if you just want to learn more about the subject, this will still most likely prove a fascinating study; it just might make your friends and family a little nervous when you’re around them.

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Links to Think: 13.02.04

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Harmful Handwashing: The Dangers of Antibacterial Soaps - It’s the time of year again (at least in our part of the world) when we suspect sickness to be lurking everywhere, if not just a cough or sneeze away. While I’m not actively using my Biology degree at this season of life, I am recalling many lectures one great micro/biology professor gave and trying to put them to practical use where applicable. One of the things he often discussed was making sure we realized the problems that overuse (and use) of antibacterial gels and soaps could cause, both on a personal level and toward the general population. I feel like this article does a good job of conveying some of the main problems linked with antibacterial soaps and gels:

  • “The antibacterial chemicals are essentially antibiotics.  They are effective in killing bacteria, but do not kill viruses, which are the cause of colds and the flu.
  • The most susceptible bacteria strains are killed when washing your hands, leaving behind the stronger bacteria.  This can lead to strains of bacteria resistant to antibiotics, such as the MRSA that we hear so much about in the news.
  • Research has shown that exposure to bacteria can actually be good because it strengthens your immune system.   People—especially children—who live in a particularly sterile environment are more prone to infections when they do have exposure to germs.
  • According to the CDC, researchers are finding a link between allergies and the use of antibacterial soaps.  Again, the soaps reduce the need for the immune system to be strengthened, which can cause allergy problems as well.”

The good news is that scientists show that use of good, old fashioned, regular soap is just as effective in washing bacteria and viruses off of our hands as antibacterial soap. All you have to do is lather up and scrub well.  The germ fighting power comes from scrubbing thoroughly and effectively rather than from any chemical additives.  This way you can get rid of most of the germs without knowingly exposing yourself to potentially harmful chemicals.”

Beyond this, the use of antibacterial soaps/gels potentially provides a false sense of security that may lead to a carelessness when thinking about microbial transfer and handling. Looking at things from a slightly different angle, I think there is a sense of fear and hype surrounding sickness that leads to nearly obsessive, yet somewhat misinformed, use of antibacterials. The link also includes further problems of triclosan, one of the most commonly used ingredients in antibacterials.

(Thanks to my friend Kristen for allowing me to engage in discussing this in real life last week. :) )

Killer Deals, Prices To Die For - The cost of our love for “cheap” is higher than we think, and it’s often paid for in human costs. My online friend Emeth Hesed has some helpful writing in thinking more about this topic, and how we need to consider stewardship over convenience.

“Just because shopping in modern America has become an impersonal, faceless thing does not mean there are not faces on the other side. We just can’t see them anymore. And many of them are suffering and dying so we can get two for $1 instead of one for $2 or $3 or $4 or $5.

“I believe that shoppers have an ethical responsibility for what they buy, because whatever they buy, they are funding somebody. I found out that all kinds of things I used to buy without thinking are actually contributing to slave labor. I am paying evil men who buy slaves and force them to work in unthinkably horrible situations, being beaten, malnourished, and dying, all for what? So we can buy cheap, low-quality products at Walmart or the dollar store.”

“I don’t believe that legislation will fix anything. I don’t think it will necessarily even help anything. The only real solution is for consumers to become more aware, to start paying attention, for people to examine their consciences about what their money will do to other people before they pounce on a great deal. Whatever the laws are, dishonest businessmen will find a way around them, as long as there is demand for unethically produced items.”

It’s easy to place frugality and greed too close together, and then to allow the lines to blur. I think, too often, we simply spiritualize our greed and call it frugality. But in the market of the world, our greed doesn’t end with us; it has long-term costs, and when we constantly push for the most we can possibly get for the least possible cost, we will inevitably continue to fuel the market for cheap labor, which sometimes comes in the form of slave labor. Either one can be dehumanizing. At the same time, it’s possible to still pay more for cheap trinkets, and the laborer still suffers. (And as my Aunt Becky is always quick to point out–there is a difference between the meanings of cheap and inexpensive.)

Reading 2013: Last Child in the Woods

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From the beginning of the book, Richard Louv makes it clear that in his titling of Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorderhe is not just trying to add another another opportunity for parents and physicians to diagnose children and prescribe corrective drugs. Yet, anyone who has had a childhood with time spent in nature should know the effect that keeping a child indoors and cooped up would have on that child’s development.

Louv assesses our current situation and looks at the various reasons of why children are spending so much less time in nature/less time outdoors. He asserts that although the “stranger danger” awareness (that has been proclaimed over the past few decades) holds some truth, it may have done more harm than good. Similarly, there is a healthy awareness of the natural dangers that nature holds, but then there is also an exaggerated terror. Often the overreaction to such hype is merely an illusion of guaranteed safety, and it comes at a price: the nature-deficit disorder. And then, there is the busyness, the hyper-parenting  and over-schooling that all lead to spending less time in nature, as well.

The book is filled with anecdotes, so I’ll add my own. For the first eleven years of my life I grew up on eleven acres of land. I loved playing in our creek and taking walks in the woods. I was heartbroken when I heard we would be selling our house and vowed that I would never enjoy living in the city. (Not that it was truly urban–just a town, really; but vastly different from my first years of childhood, nonetheless.) My dad was very safety conscious, and even a bit beyond in some realms (e.g., making us hold his hands to cross the street while in our preteens). At the same time, he was quite reasonable and risk-taking in others (e.g., I was shooting a gun quite early in life, with his careful instruction). But to the point of how my childhood in the country relates to this book: my dad was concerned that there might be rapists roaming in our woods, which was very much a result of the stranger danger campaigns going on during that time. Our creek was accessed via a short walk through the woods, and as a result of my dad’s concerns I was never allowed to take this walk on my own (or even with another child). So it definitely didn’t happen as much as I wished–I did long for that alone time in nature. And although my dad’s overcautiousness meant I was not allowed license to roam the land, I was still afforded many opportunities that many of my city-dwelling cohorts did not experience. (Meanwhile my husband was roaming the mountains, parking garages, and streets of Korea with his brothers, and I’m gradually growing less and less shocked at what adventures they were permitted to have.)

Addressing the busyness factor, Louv acknowledged that it may be difficult for some to think that spending time in nature is essential if it is viewed from the perspective of being leisure time. To correct this, he points out the importance of spending time in nature in how it affects mental and physical health, both for the parent and child. When viewed from this paradigm, parents who make their preschoolers too busy with countless tutoring sessions and lessons to help “advance” the child will be more likely to make sure their children to spend sometime in nature.

The book also emphasizes that although nature can include a simple backyard or a park, it is quite important that we also view nature as “the wild” parts of nature, and spend time protecting and enjoying that realm, as well. He gives ideas and solutions, and recognizes that “some of any type” is better than “none.”

An interesting aspect that Louv addressed was the spiritual element of interacting with nature, and he even addressed some of the specific concerns that many conservative American Christians have regarding such interaction. I felt that he addressed these well, and seemingly, somewhat unbiasedly (at least, without knowing much more about the author than what is presented in the book.)

As a side point, and in conjunction with some of my other reading, I also thought about the common American Christian response to anything that hints of “environmentalism.” The apocalyptic view held by many American conservative Christians has predominately been used as the scapegoat that dominion is a license for destruction and that we can carelessly use nature and the environment without giving thought to how our use or misuse could impact nature and people in future generations. Of course, this is a misguided view, and in this view we show our anachrocentricism (I think I made that word up?), ethnocentrism, and narcissistic view of stewardship.

I did find the book to run on in many points and it could perhaps have been written more concisely (and consequently, briefly). For anyone who already sees the importance of spending time outdoors and in nature, little of the book will contain shocking revelations or new information. At the same time, it is a helpful book and does go over many helpful considerations and solutions. For anyone, though, I think this book is a wake-up call.

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Reading 2013: Work Shift

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I’ve been looking forward to reading Work Shift: How to Create a Better Blend of Work, Life, and Family since I heard about it a few months ago. Even with the title, I wasn’t sure quite what the focus of the book would be.

Blogger Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy wrote Work Shift to share with women the possibilites of combining work and family. She explores what this can look like by looking at the ways 30 different women are doing this. Although there are some exceptions, the majority of the examples show how mother and father can function as the primary caregivers, while also arranging scheduling and work so that both are able to work.

I appreciated this book for a number of reasons, but particularly so because our family has somewhat unique work arrangements (although I am only doing a very small percentage of the “working.”) Like a good number of the families featured, my husband works from his home office, and has a small degree of flexibility in the way he is able to arrange his schedule and work location. We have done this purposefully (though we realize it’s not always possible), and it was affirming to read of other families doing similarly.

Of course, we have computer-based jobs for the most part, but Work Shift also shows how women and men working more traditional jobs can also arrange their jobs and schedules in a way that allows for a unique blend of work and family. There are excellent examples of families doing these very things.

The beginning of the book focuses on some of the history of the workplace–our current cultural view of work is such that we tend to forget that our current construct not the norm prior to the industrial revolution. Anne then goes through how the work-family blend operates, and then looks at individual examples over a broad variety of family situations and work arrangements.

I found this book helpful and inspiring. Like others have commented, I wish I had spent more of my unmarried and childless years exploring and training for options that would allow me to blend work and family; at the same time, there are still plenty of options to allow me to both spend time being a primary caregiver to my children, family, and home while also exploring creative outlets and income-producing opportunities. This book provides an excellent picture of what such opportunities can look like.

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Links to Think: 13.01.28

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Is Facebook envy making you miserable? - An insightful article on our use of social media.

“LONDON (Reuters) – Witnessing friends’ vacations, love lives and work successes on Facebook can cause envy and trigger feelings of misery and loneliness, according to German researchers.

The researchers found that one in three people felt worse after visiting the site and more dissatisfied with their lives, while people who browsed without contributing were affected the most.”

“”The spread and ubiquitous presence of envy on Social Networking Sites is shown to undermine users’ life satisfaction.”

They found people aged in their mid-30s were most likely to envy family happiness while women were more likely to envy physical attractiveness.

These feelings of envy were found to prompt some users to boast more about their achievements on the site run by Facebook Inc. to portray themselves in a better light.

Men were shown to post more self-promotional content on Facebook to let people know about their accomplishments while women stressed their good looks and social lives.”

Watching What They WatchChristianity Today’s Her.Meneutics article gives 9 tips for media selection for kids ages 3 to 10. I found much of this thinking similar to ours, including why we don’t find Veggie Tales a good choice for young kids. :)

“Especially in Christian circles, I hear plenty of pontificating on the evils of American entertainment, but as a parent, what I need most is realistic advice for the world I live in. Most of us are not going to burn our TVs. Most of us need a positive and practical model for how to raise “media wise” kids. That model should address not just the content of what we show our kids, but also the form it comes in and how it’s made. That’s why media literacy matters.”

“Pay attention to how fast the video moves. The faster the cut rate—more edits or image changes per minute—the more frenetic the video, and the more frenetic the video, the more difficulty your child will have tracking the story. Generally speaking, the younger the child, the slower the cut rate.”

“Even if your child seems to be tracking a fast-paced video, be cognizant of how it impacts her emotional state. A frenetic video with lots of visual edits and up-tempo music can rev her system the same way rock music revs your system. Conversely, a slower video will help calm her system. Keep in mind, too, that TV viewing impacts cognitive development. Some studies indicate that, even in homes that value education, excess TV exposure impairs learning in school.”

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