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Reading 2013: EntreLeadership

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There are a lot of books on leadership, small business, and entrepreneurship these days. There are even a good number of books by Dave Ramsey. EntreLeadership: 20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches attempts to combine all these elements in one tightly packaged book.

In typical Dave Ramsey tone, the book is straightforward; Dave Ramsey drives home his points, leaving dissenters in the dust. Yet, there is also a warm tone of happy reflection wedded to Dave’s strident passion for strong leadership, debt-free living, and out-of-the-box thinking when it comes to business.

The book contains many personal stories from Dave’s failed, foreclosed real estate ventures all the way to his current multi-million, multi-faceted company, The Lampo Group, LLC.  Financial advice, leadership counsel, and productivity make up core themes of the book.

Entrepreneur is a broad term, and this book narrows in on a certain type of entrepreneur: small business entrepreneurs whose businesses will include multiple employees and, specifically, addressing those businesses which will be run in a brick-and-mortar location. Of course, there’s also the big fundamental for Ramsey: such businesses won’t plan to go into debt for their start-up. Those who fall outside these parameters will still benefit from a good portion of the book, though, and many of the lessons are applicable beyond business.

For those who have read or listened to Dave Ramsey before, this book will sound similar to much of Dave Ramsey’s speaking and writing, yet it has a special perspective looking at things from the business owner side of Dave’s desk.

Although Dave’s strident tone sometimes comes across to me as brash, overall I generally appreciate and benefit from his writing and speaking (even if I don’t like the way his message comes across). This book left me with a similar feeling. I have read a good number of entrepreneur-focused business books in the past few years, and although it’s not my top pick in the genre (not to mention the books I enjoy most on business have the focus of more out-of-the-box business ideas), it’s probably a good read for anyone who will be leading a team as they build their business.

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Daily Rhythms with Anchor Points and Pressure Valves

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Anchor Points Make Days Predictable and Flexible

These days, I don’t write out a minute by minute schedule to plan each day. Forget minutes–I don’t write out hourly schedules, either. Our days are fairly predictable with expected routines, but they also have a lot unstructured kid free time spaced throughout the day.

We like to call the routines that hold down our day our anchor points. Anchor points are the non-negotiables that tie our days together. We have a few checklist items (e.g., make/eat breakfast, work on article, read book together, take walk, etc…), and then I arrange them within the general time categories when I need to accomplish them (e.g., morning, early afternoon, evening while kids are sleeping, etc…). Wedding this idea with the concept of margin has provided me with more flexibility and opportunities to get things done.

Keep It Simple Schedule

One way to become quickly overwhelmed with small children is to pencil in every minute of the day. When a diaper or potty accident occurs, a shoe is lost while heading out the door, or a child really needs a little more of your attention, the minute-by-minute schedule is thrown off for the rest of the day. Instead, and particularly in this season of motherhood, it may help to focus on times as chunks, and days with routines instead of strict schedules.

In his productivity book Zen to Done, Leo Babuata encourages his readers to eliminate many of the unnecessary items off of their checklists, and just focus on three main tasks for each day. By eliminating others, they are more compelled to actually accomplish the most important tasks.

While such extreme simplification in motherhood (especially the SAHM version) may seem unrealistic, it may help to eliminate the minutia that ends up creating more stress and distracting from accomplishing what is truly important.

Life Tastes Better in Bite-Sized Chunks

Viewing your day as centered around anchor points will also help to break the day into chunks, and allow each section to seem more manageable. Bite-size is easier to do throughout the day than trying to eat a whole elephant at the end of the day.

Mealtimes are great anchor points. Using these as your non-negotiable times, you may choose to break up your day into a breakfast checklist, a lunchtime checklist, an afternoon checklist, and an after supper checklist. Additionally, each day may have its own space for a particular outing or activity. (But when you try to cram in too many, you’ll definitely experience circuit overload!)

Centered around the morning anchor point, you may wish to include breakfast, cleaning up the breakfast dishes, deeper cleaning one room assigned each day, reading through two small books with a child, and answering one e-mail. Of course, with children, there will be a host of other activities that come up: changing a diaper, an emergency bath, or helping an older child work through a frustration or schoolword. With children, flexibility is important–both for your sake and the child’s. Then, push to get all those items accomplished before the next anchor comes up. You can rearrange as life happens, and even eliminate when needed.

We All Need Breathing Space: Margin and Pressure Valves 

We all need breathing space in our days, throughout our days. This breathing space is, as Dr. Richard Swenson titles itmargin. Margin is essential in motherhood, though we don’t often notice it if we’re not intentional about it. Yet its absence often leaves us breathless and wondering why.
In the book Simplicity Parenting, author Kim John Payne discusses the concept of pressure valves. Pressure valves are important parts of the day–they are times during which to release pressure or tension and to sort of “regroup” or “debrief” mentally and emotionally before moving on to the next part of the day. These are important for anyone, but particularly so for the more introverted and easily stimulated child. Such activities can include painting, water play, naps and quiet times, quiet play, or a quiet walk.

Or, as Payne writes about other types of pressure valves:

“For some boys and industrious types, work can serve as a pressure valve. Such work might be doing a project: hauling rocks in a wheel-barrow, digging a hole, building with blocks, catching lizards, or climbing a tree. Ongoing projects that kids are anxious to get back to right after school can be wonderful pressure valves. Any activity a child can “lose himself in” allows for a release of tension, and the mental ease needed to process the day’s events. Whatever the means, active deep play is an excellent pressure valve. As kids reach the preteen years, sometimes hobbies or collections – the beginnings of deep passions – and organized sports can serve the same purpose.”

Personal Experience 
I’ve found that my kids need both unstructured play and quiet times (since naps are not usual for the oldest two) to have a smoother day. And I’ve found that when I am able (not always possible!) my own morning and afternoon with a little quiet space, the day goes much more smoothly on my end, as well. (And if you must live by a minute-by-minute schedule, then schedule these into your day.)
I have watched my children learn to create all sorts of objects with paper, scissors, and glue or in the dirt when “set free” to play by themselves. I’ve also overheard countless stories being relived and enhanced as they become actors in the worlds they create from stories we’ve read, family memories we’ve shared, and totally random compilations of their lives.
As homeschoolers who finished their work quickly, my husband and his brothers (and sister) had many hours with which to invent their own worlds, write and illustrate books in the notebooks, and even make home video movies complete with explosive. I see his creativity then and now, and want that for my children.
But when every single minute is structured, these opportunities are often lost.
As I was working on this post, I noticed that Catherine of The Spirited Mind had a very helpful post that addressed many of the same topics, though from a different angle. I have appreciated her ongoing writing on habit training and children, and benefited from her tying together Charlotte Mason, habit training, and unstructured time.
On my end, I know the coming years will hold more structured (school) time than they do now, but for now we are learning lots with lots of unstructured moments spaced between a little bit of reading and writing. And at present, we are also aiming to grow and learn more habits to catalyze the effects of the unstructured time (and vice versa). I entered adult life with far fewer habits than my husband, so I often feel like trying to instill them both in myself and my children while also living a full life is like swimming upstream. But then again, two steps forward for every step back is still progress!
Do you live by a highly-structured schedule? A flexible routine? Or nothing at all? Or all of the above? :)

Reading 2013: Zen to Done

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Leo Babuata of Zen Habits fame has written a brief book on productivity, in which he claims his system to be the ultimate of simple productivity system. Zen to Done: The Ultimate Simple Productivity System builds on several productivity systems, particularly those described in Getting Things Done and 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (my review here).

Personally, although I am at least 10 times more productive now than I was six or seven years ago, I still have a long way to go before I feel like I have a streamlined system. (Ironically, I’ve grown more productive as I’ve been more reproductive–an marked increase with the addition of each child! ;) ) I have learned a lot simply from being married to a man who already had healthy, well-established habits of  productivity, efficiency, and organization; but I have also learned a lot from reading various books.

While I appreciated Getting Things Done, I did find the system to be a little overwhelming, especially at the point  in life when I read it (when I was already overwhelmed with a hectic schedule and marginless living). As time has progressed since we first tried to integrate Getting Things Done into our lives, we’ve also come to realize that at it’s core, organization (for us) is about simplification. And that’s what I really appreciated about Zen to Done: simplicity and productivity are wed together, rather than one obscuring the other.

Babuata refers to Getting Things Done so frequently that he simply uses the acronym GTD when referring to it (this is common among many who’ve read the book, though, and not unique to Babuata) and he uses ZTD to refer to his own system. He brings up the fact that sometimes the GTD method focuses on the minutia while losing sight of the big picture. With a more simplistic view, ZTD focuses on making sure we are being most productive where and when it really counts.

Going Back to a Simple Notebook

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One recommendation that Babuata makes for his system over GTD is to eliminate all the extra systems, organizers, and binders and simply use one pocket notebook (he prefers a moleskine). Likewise, he recommends paper over technology, but does concede that if such a system works best for some, then go ahead.

I think this was the impetus I needed, and feeling like I should just keep notes online/on my phone was actually a barrier to my productivity. I’ve been going through this year trying to keep my lists and to-do-lists on my iPhone or computer, but knew that I wasn’t seeing the lists frequently enough to truly feel organized.

So, I’m going back to paper and giving it a try. I do take notes on my iPhone, and now have a weekly time to enter those into my notebook. So far it is working (a week and a half since reading the book), and I feel so much more productive and organized as a result. Obviously, I’m not too far into this change, so the real results will show months from now.

Eliminate! Eliminate! Eliminate!

One of the main foci of the GTD is getting everything out on paper (or day planner or PDA) is that you get everything out of your mind and don’t have to so concerned about it becoming jumbled in the mind. Zen to Done promotes doing this, but also eliminating most of what is on paper. However, I feel that this is where ZTD fails to elaborate: does this really help or does it just put some of that clutter back into the mind? I think the point here is to do less and take on less, but how that is done is not made as clear as perhaps it could be.

Babuata recommend only taking on 3 big tasks per day, and if you have too many, then move it to another day. This is also helpful. (And great advice for parents–don’t schedule too much for one day–oh my, there is so much to say about this!) Here are some tips that Babuata has written about choosing your most important/three things:

  1. “Choose only three things to do today. If you set a limit, you will be forced to choose just the important things. If you don’t set a limit, you’ll try to do everything … which means you’ll be busy, but you’ll be doing a lot of unimportant things as well. Just choose three, but choose carefully.
  2. Choose for impact, not urgency. There are always things that seem urgent today, and those things tend to push the important stuff back. But here’s the thing: the urgent stuff is only urgent in our minds. In a week, they won’t matter. But if you choose something that has long-term impact on your work and your life, it will matter in a week. It’s those high-impact tasks that really make a difference. If you choose high-impact tasks — things that will really make a difference over time, that will get you recognition and success and create new opportunities — you can let the urgent stuff melt away.
  3. Choose them the night before. Plan your three tasks the night before, so you’re prepped for the day when you wake up. Then there’s no “urgent” stuff on the list, because you chose them when you were calm. It helps give you a jump-start on your day.
  4. Start on them immediately. First thing you do when you start working: start on the first of your three important tasks. Don’t do little things. Just start.”

This book was refreshing for me to read, mostly because it was so articulate in conveying the simplicity of such productivity. (Not to mention, I read it right after books by Dave Ramsey and Michael Hyatt, authors who tend to write with more strident tones! :) )

In some ways, it was too simple, but in other ways, it was refreshingly so. It is a very brief book, which makes it easy to read and to implement. The one huge caveat is that it probably would not make as much sense if the reader has not previously read Getting Things Done or 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. 

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January in Review: Reading and Goals

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A little late, but I’m still going to recap some of my January goals, annual goals, and blogging. Obviously, a public blog is not the place to share all my goals, but just a select few in areas which I’ve found motivational and inspiring for me to read about other people’s goals. Continue Reading…

What Are You Waiting for? The Next 30 Days

 

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Many people believe that if they don’t start their resolutions on January 1, a whole 364 more days must pass before they can give it another shot.  While I do like the idea of starting off the new year with a “clean slate,” and fresh, new goals, I can also attest to the benefits of taking on a challenge later on in the year. (Not to mention that my rosy picture of an slow and peaceful introduction to January is usually thwarted by  one factor or another.) Continue Reading…

5 Components of My New Year Planning

While planning for the 2013 year, I broke down my goals and plans into several components:

1. The Year-Long Goals

These are done over the course of the year, and don’t necessarily have any time constraints. (Though, holding off until the end of the year would make achieving such goals improbable.)

Examples: Items like read 75 books in 2013, run 300 miles over the course of the year, lose 25 pounds this year, etc…

2. The Bucket List

The stuff I want to do this year that I can check off and say “hurray, I/we did it!” Generally, it’s a one-time thing, though getting to the point of checking it off may require a process.

Examples: visit a certain museum, run a 5K, take a class, get certified as a PADI diver, etc…

3. The Daily Habits

These are things that are daily goals/accomplishments, though they may contribute to a bigger overall goal.

Examples: read my Bible, do my exercises and stretches, drink 2.5: water/day, etc…

4. The Month-Long Developments

If you tend to have a lot of goals to start a new year, but also feel compelled to try to work on all of them at once, this is a helpful way to avoid becoming overwhelmed and experiencing a sort of choice paralysis.

This is where I feel the development and change is really felt. For each month, I choose a goal area (that may have many sub-goals) and focus my energies on improving in that area and establishing healthy habits. It frees me from trying to pursue everything at once, and becoming so distracted and overhwlmed that I merely end the year with 12 half-finished projects. (I also recommend using margin, as well: there are 12 months, but it may be better to just aim for 9 or 10 (or less) areas of improvement, rather than 12.)

Planning month-long goals is a concept that is well demonstrated in the books The Happiness Project and Happier at Home

Examples: Working on fitness for January, focusing on strengthening a marriage for February, working on improving writing skills during March, etc…

5. Family Goals

Particularly, as a parent, there are certain goals I also have for my family. Most of these consist in habit-training for our children. Obviously, this applies to my older children the most, and this aspect will fade again as they grow older.

This also applies to something we may wish to set as a family goal, or work on together.

Examples: Teach my children to consistently put away their clothes, drink adequate amounts of water daily, set the table, etc…

Overview

There is overlap in these, of course, and several goals may fall into multiple categories. Different people may choose to arrange the same goal into different categories. If I take a month to focus on fitness, running a 5K or marathon may fall into that category, depending on where I already am in that area. For others, January may be the month to jumpstart into fitness with the end-of-the-year goal being to be able to run a race.

I’m excited about my goals for this coming year, but also thinking about what I wrote last year: “Resolution Reflections: to Come, to Rest, to Be Still, to Trust.

Do you make new year’s goals, plans, o resolutions? How do you plan and organize your new year’s goals?

(photo, new year planning during my mini-personal retreat)